Heartfelt Long-Distance Love Letters
Our Hearts Are Connected Dear [Name],Remember, our love is the link that holds our two hearts together and if I could put into words how you make me feel when I think of you, and how much you excite me when I hear your sweet sexy voice, I would be talking forever. You're all that I need and want, honey. I live for the day that I can sit next to you and whisper into your ear and tell you that I love you, and kiss you ever so lightly but passionately on your lips, and look into your beautiful eyes as you take my breath away. I live for that first look into your eyes, that first passionate kiss, and that first embrace. I live to spend a lifetime with you and to grow old with you, loving you from now to eternity.Always and forever,[Name] Writing tip: Let your significant other know all the things you miss about them. Nothing is too small or specific to mention! Meet the wikiHow Experts Kemar & DeAnne Johnson are relationship experts who specialize in effective communication and maintaining a healthy intimate relationship. Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC, is a marriage and family therapist who works with clients to liberate them from their internal and external constraints. Crista Beck is a dating coach and matchmaker who helps people become open to love and find a partner. Adrienne Raphel is a writer who teaches at CUNY-Baruch College. Connell Barrett is a dating coach and relationship expert who helps men unlock their best and most confident selves.
Hearts Apart Sweetheart,Know that the distance cannot make our hearts apart even though we are miles away. Each time I think of you, I smile to myself. Despite the distance, your love for me makes me feel that you are always beside me. I miss you and I am always missing you a lot, my dear one. I hope you will reply to this message soon and not make my heart wait too much for you. Right now, I am living with the memories of you, and they keep me company every second. Tell me it is the same with you. I miss you.Love,[Name] Writing tip: Mention the little things about them that make you smile, like a specific memory or inside joke.
My Hero My love,Every moment, you grace my memories with your presence. I think of you over and over again, as that is the only thing my heart can concentrate on. I love you. It does not matter whether you are here with me or not; my memory has you etched in it. Nothing in this world matters as much as your love for me, which makes me float and feel like the luckiest person in the universe. One very sure fact is that you will forever be my sweetheart, and there is nothing on earth that can separate us from each other.Love,[Name] Writing tip: When writing a love letter to your boyfriend or girlfriend, use bold statements that share how they’re the only one for you.
Time Apart Dear [Name],I know we don't get to talk much anymore. But not being with you doesn't change the way I feel about you in my heart. Sure, I'm lonely, and sometimes I'm overwhelmed with this emptiness in my chest. But baby, I love you and am in love with you. That's what gets me through every minute that I'm without you. And baby, you don't know what I would give to kiss your lips, feel your touch, or even just to see you. I don't care if you forget our first kiss, our first date, just as long as you remember that I love you with every bone in my body, no matter what.Love always,[Name] Writing tip: Make a long-distance relationship work with vivid reminders of how much you love them as time goes by.
Dreaming of You Darling,Staying far from you is harsh to me as I miss your touch and warmth. The way you hold and comfort me whenever I need it is something nobody can do for me. I dream every day that you are by my side, and when I wake, the harsh reality hits me that I’m without you. I miss everything about you. Thoughts of you fill me with the strength to face each day. I can’t wait until you are back. I love you,[Name] Writing tip: Let them know how hard life can be without them, while being hopeful about seeing them again.
When We First Met Dear,The first time I saw you, I just knew I had found someone wonderful. From then on, all I wanted was just to be with you. You brighten my day with your smiles and words. Darling, you are the most loving and forgiving person I have ever known. Your beautiful heart is one of the attractions I got from you. I promise to do all I can to make you happy. We will have an everlasting friendship of two inseparable souls who cannot live in isolation. I will forever cherish what we have. Thank you for being there, at least on my mind, for now.Love you,[Name] Writing tip: Remind your partner why you fell in love with them in the first place.
Why I Love You My dear,Scholars have always said, out of sight is out of mind, but that can’t be true for people in a relationship. When you are not here, I can’t seem to get you out of my mind, and, if we happen to go our separate ways years from now, I want you to always remember something: you are braver & way stronger than your looks portray you to be and smarter than you think but, the most important of all these things is, even if we are torn apart, I will always be with you.Forever yours,[Name] Writing tip: Give them the confidence they need to thrive on their own when you’re not around.
Another Day [Nickname],How are you able to be so far away without me? I can barely manage the days, let alone weeks. Every night I think of you, and I can't help but imagine what it would be like if we were together. I miss your voice, your laugh, your sense of humor, and how you look at me when we talk. But most of all, I miss us sitting around for hours just talking about random things with no particular point or purpose, but just to be together. I love you to the moon and back, and every moment I spend apart from you feels like an eternity. Until we can be together again.Love always,[Name] Writing tip: Whether writing a love letter to your girlfriend or boyfriend, explain what every day without them is like.
Plan a Date NightMy love,I miss you so much every day. Even though we are miles apart, I am still yours, and you are still mine. I can't bear this loneliness. It's too heavy on my heart. So, I've come up with a crazy but brilliant idea: Let's meet halfway between us for a date night! Let's pack some snacks and drinks, hit the road until we meet in the middle, and just hang out together for one night. We can pick out some places to explore, grab dinner together, and make the most of our evening. I can't wait to see your face, feel your warmth, and share some unforgettable moments with you—even for just one night. Until then, I will continue to carry you in my heart wherever I go.Love,[Name] Writing tip: Propose meeting halfway to plan a “middle of the road” date night.
Happy Birthday, My Love My dearest love,Happiest Birthday!!! I am so glad you were born. Today is your special day, and I can’t help but feel so incredibly blessed to have you in my life. As you celebrate your (#) birthday, I want you to know how much I love and cherish you. If you were here, I would give you the biggest kiss and take you out for a day of fun and laughter. But since we are miles away, I am sending all my love in this letter. May your day be filled with wonder, joy, and a little bit of missing me. When you return, I'll be waiting by the kitchen counter with a giant chocolate cake and the perfect gift for your birthday. I miss you, and I can't wait to celebrate with you.Your Sweetheart Writing tip: Tell them how much you wish you could be there on their birthday.
Time Flies Dear [Name],We are meant to be together for the rest of our lives, this we know. Each day that passes, I am aware that it means that it is one day closer to being in your arms again. Each night is spent dreaming of your face and wishing you were next to me again. You are amongst death and danger, though I know you are being careful. I love you with more than just my heart; I love you with my entire being. Meeting you was fate; this distance is just an inconvenience. Love always,[Name] Writing tip: Use supportive language to reassure you’re partner that you can overcome the distance with time and persistence.
Long-Distance Anniversary Hi Love,Happy Anniversary! Today marks a very special day in our lives. We have been together for [#] years now, and I'm still just as much in love with you as when we first met. Throughout the years, we've fought off a bear, jumped out of a plane, and even braved the toughest of storms together—all while never forgetting that we are in it together. Thank you for all your love, patience, understanding, and support throughout this journey. You have been my rock during hard times and partner-in-crime during fun times. I can't imagine life without you, and I am so grateful to have chosen you as my partner in life.Forever yours,[Name] Writing tip: Share the best parts of your relationship when you have to celebrate your anniversary apart.
A Letter of Reassurance My dearest [Name],I know that the distance between us can be hard to bear, but I want you to know that my love for you burns just as intensely as ever. I think of you constantly, and my heart yearns to be by your side. Even though we may be miles apart, I will never forget how you make me feel when we are together. When life gets tough and things don't go my way, all I need is one thought of you, and all my worries disappear. You've been there through thick and thin, always understanding and providing unconditional support during difficult times in my life. That's why even though we may not see each other often, I will never take for granted the connection we share and how much strength it gives me each day. You are the greatest gift in my life, and I will always be here for you.Yours forever,[Name] Writing tip: Comfort them about how strong a relationship you have, so they know you’re always there for them.
I Adore You Hi Honey,I'm here to tell you just how much I adore you. From the way you make me laugh to how you never forget to call, no matter how busy life gets—it's easy to see why we were meant for each other. Here are three reasons I love and adore you to the moon and back: Your unending patience. No matter how badly I mess up, you just take it in stride and forgive me like nothing ever happened. Your passion for adventure. Your zest for life is contagious and makes me want to start living more freely. Your romantic side. The thoughtful gestures you make, from love letters to surprise gifts, always make my heart skip a beat. There will never be enough words to express how much I adore you! I'm sending you all my love until we can be together again.Love,[Name] Writing tip: Help them remember the many things they do to make you feel loved and accepted.
See You Soon Dear [Name],Ever since the first day we met, I knew you were the one for me. There was no doubt in my mind that we would be spending the rest of our lives together. The past few months have been hard, especially since you're not here with me, but no matter how far you are, our love will flourish and bloom in each other's hearts. I await the day we reunite as I miss your tender touch. I want the whole world to know that I love you and nothing will ever change that. There is no other man for me, and there is no other woman for you; we were created for each other, to ease each other's pain and sorrow and replace our sadness with love and happiness. Come home soon!!Love always,[Name] Writing tip: Share how excited you are to be together again one day.
Staying in Touch My dearest love,I hope you're doing well! I miss you so much. This week has been pretty wild in the office. We had some drama that shook up the whole team, and things were a bit chaotic. Do you remember Susan? Well, she's been getting on my nerves a lot lately, and when I finally confronted her about it, things got a little heated. We had a big argument, but eventually worked it out after a trip to the HR office. Apart from that, work has been going well, and everyone on the team is still getting along. Plus, I'm close to submitting that project I told you about. But it has been giving me a lot of headaches. So, all in all, it's been a busy and productive week here. I can't wait for the day when you'll finally be back home so I can tell you about everything in person. Write back soon and let me know what’s happening in your world.With Love,[Name] Writing tip: Encourage your significant other to stay in touch by sharing the seemingly “unimportant” details of your day or week.
A Season Apart Dearest Love,Winter has finally arrived here. The first day of winter was filled with snow flurries and temps in the 20s. I can't help but think about all the fun times we had last year when it was cold outside. Do you remember when we went ice skating with our friends and Jennifer fell on her butt in front of everyone? That was so hilarious! And you laughed so hard that you lost control and ended up on your butt, too. That was such a fun and memorable day, especially later that night, if you remember (and I know you do). I wish we could do it all over again together. I love you, and I miss you!All my love,[Name] Writing tip: Mark and celebrate the seasons and/or holidays, even when you can’t be with the one you love most.
Ode to Romance Honey,I am happy I have you in my life now, despite the long distance between us. I know that we’ll be happy later, that's why you work hard now. You are the one who gives meaning to my life and makes our home a paradise. Our love will be a remarkable one that even the sun, moon, and stars will envy. I know you sometimes fear that I do not love you as much as you wish. But know, darling, that since I have met you, my life has turned into colorful dreams. I have known you, I have loved you, and I always will without reserve or inhibitions. I have known you so much that jealousy is even an agony to me. Know that I would die for you, my life. I call you my life because you define life to me in another way.All my love,[Name] Writing tip: Don’t be afraid to use poetic language to express your feelings sincerely, whether you’re writing romantic paragraphs for him or letters to make your girlfriend cry tears of love.
You Are My World Dear [Name], My love, I want you, I want to be with you, I want you in my life, I want you forever. I don’t even know what to say as my heart is bursting with words to say to you. Thank you for showing me your love every day. You are not here, but your love makes me strong. Life with you, whenever we are together, is the best. You have changed my life completely, as I see life and love in you. You make me feel important, even though you are not here with me. You are my everything, yes; I would not mind repeating it every minute to you. That is just the way you make me feel. I look forward to when you will be coming home, as my heart feels heavy with the way I miss you right now. I love you.Your dearest,[Name] Writing tip: Let them know what a positive difference they’ve made in your life.
Fairy-Tale Romance for Him My Prince Charming,Don’t even bother yourself wondering how much I love you, it’s like asking me how much air I breathe each day. Know that you are the sun that brightens my day in the sky, the river that runs through and waters my soul, the very air that I breathe. I have never believed it was possible to love a soul the way I love you, but now I know better. Your true and deep love exists for me because you are love itself. Know today that I have always been and will always be totally yours. Please come home soon, as I miss you.Love,[Name] Writing tip: Create a romantic connection through poetic words and phrases for your prince (or princess) charming.
I’m Sorry Hello darling, I know I have terribly offended you. I am so sorry, my love. Work has been time-consuming, but guess what? Your picture’s on my table, your memories are in my head, and the kisses that we shared all make me feel so fly at work that I breeze past my duties easily. I cannot help but admire your devotion to me and our little angels. Although my mind has been discontented and restless, as I cannot see you anytime I wish to. I see you everywhere. I can’t wait to hold you in my arms again and tell the stories of our love to our sweet ones. Take care, as I hope to do and be fine till I see you again.Forgive me,[Name] Writing tip: Letters that say “I’m sorry” help when you’re working through long-distance arguments or difficulties in your relationship.
Old-Fashioned Love My darling,As I write this, we’re separated, but I’ve never felt closer to you in spirit. The distance between us is just geography, and can't diminish what we share. I miss the softness of your hair between my fingers, the sound of your laughter filling our apartment, and the warmth of your body next to mine at night. But this separation has also revealed how deeply connected we are beyond the physical. Our late-night phone calls have become my favorite part of each day. It’s in these conversations that I’m reminded that no matter how far apart we are, our hearts beat in sync. Just [#] more days until you’re back in my arms. Until then, I’ll look for you in the stars at night, knowing you’re under the same sky, loving me as deeply as I love you.Missing you,[Name] Writing tip: Deal with long-distance relationships by connecting to your S.O. no matter how far away they are, so they know you’re emotionally by their side.
An Unbreakable Bond Dear love,Every day, I'm reminded that we are miles apart, which makes me very sad. But I hold onto our love, knowing it will eventually pull us through this phase. I know the distance can be hard sometimes, but I also know that our love is stronger than any distance between us. An unbreakable bond connects us, and I know in my heart that we will overcome any obstacle and be stronger for it. You mean the world to me, and I can't wait until we are reunited again. I'm counting the days until I can finally be in your arms.Yours always,[Name] Writing tip: Be emphatic about how you can’t wait to see them again.
You Make Me Happy Hey Sweetheart,I can't express how much joy it brings me when I hear your voice, or we can have a conversation over video chat. Your tenderness and care made me fall in love with you, and your sweetness melts my heart every single time. I am constantly reminded of how grateful I am for all we share, even though we are far apart. I can't help but think about how wonderful it would be to have you here with me, where I can give you all the love and affection you deserve. Until then, I will continue to cherish every moment we share and look forward to our next reunion with longing and excitement. I love you beyond the stars, and I can't wait to show you how deeply I care when we see each other again.All my love,[Name] Writing tip: Promise them how happy you’ll make them once they come home to you.
Thank You for the Flowers My dear,Thank you so much for the beautiful flowers you sent me. It was so sweet and unexpected. It put a smile on my face right away! I know how hard it is to stay connected while we are apart, but you always find ways to make me feel special and loved. I appreciate all the effort you put into surprising me like this. You are amazing! I can’t wait to thank you in person.Kissing you,[Name] Writing tip: Send a loving note anytime they give you a long-distance gift to say “thank you.”
Tips for Writing Long-Distance Love Letters
Express yourself authentically with direct words and phrases. You’re writing to a person with whom you share a romantic relationship, so start your love letter by telling them how you feel every day that you’re apart. While doing that, avoid getting too negative about how much you miss them. Concentrate on what makes your love special and the many good times you have to look forward to. Try some of these phrases: Distance can’t diminish my love for you. Every day without you feels lonely, but I hope to see you again soon. Our love is strong enough to bring us together, no matter how big the distance. Dating coach and matchmaker Crista Beck suggests focusing on “what you love about your partner and why. Write a letter explaining all the reasons why you love them.”
Use poetic, romantic language to show your vulnerable side. Even if you don’t fancy yourself a poet, think of the love you share in terms of metaphors. If your love warms you, compare it to a sunrise; if your partner’s beauty inspires you, tell them they’re as gorgeous as a flower in bloom. The creative words you choose when thinking of love letter ideas will mean something to them because they’re coming from you. Some examples of romantic language are here: The sweet music of your voice. Our love is like a fire that’s always burning. When the world feels like a thunderstorm, you give me sunshine. Beck says to “describe the qualities that make them special to you and touch your heart—it can be quirky, cute, or tender things about them."
Include specific memories you share. Writing a long-distance love letter is the perfect opportunity to mention memories throughout your relationship. Whether it’s your first date, the time you first expressed love for each other, or an awesome trip you took together, those details are what they need to hear. This is especially true when you’re so far away from each other. Some ideas follow: Remember our first date? I ordered the chicken at the BBQ place, and you laughed (it was funny). The night you took me for a walk through the hills and told me you loved me still lives in my memories. The night you said goodbye, I still remember how wonderful hugging you felt. "Be as specific as you can on the page as an expression of love, because love is noticing and paying attention," notes writer Adrienne Raphel.
Declare your love when signing a love letter. Even when you’re signing off, include a heartfelt closing that will reiterate how much you love them. Some ideas on ending love letters are ahead: All my love, Forever yours, Your favorite [guy/girl], Your dearest, Love always,
Consider handwriting the letter. Though it’s easier to write a love email when your partner lives far away, it’s a more memorable experience to handwrite a love letter to them. Take your time if you need to write a few drafts first. Once you get the final letter ready, handwrite it on beautiful stationery they’ll love seeing in the mail. Reading your handwritten words will touch their heart more than an email ever could (but you can still send them emails, too!). Sending handwritten letters on a special occasion is practical, like one for their birthday, your anniversary, or a holiday.
Make a statement by including small gifts or a scent. If you have room, add a small item or gift with your letter to surprise them. It could be something as simple as a small pressed flower or an autumn leaf. You can also get them a meaningful trinket you know they’d love to have from you. Otherwise, spray their favorite perfume or cologne onto the letter so they know it came from you. Avoid placing anything too valuable in the envelope since it’s being sent through the mail. A few sprays of perfume or cologne are all you need. You don’t have to douse the entire letter to get your point across!
Send love letters on a regular basis. Staying connected through love letters can help any long-distance relationship not only survive, but also thrive. Relationship experts Kemar and DeAnne Johnson suggest “scheduling a time to communicate daily, maybe in the morning and the afternoon, so you keep communication going between you and stay connected. Make an effort to communicate a lot to keep that romance going.” Relationship therapist Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC, agrees that it’s healthy to keep in contact regularly with your significant other in a long-distance relationship. “It’s going to lead to a healthier dynamic through consistency.” Want to see how others do it? Get online support by checking out our forum about the secrets of making a long-distance relationship work.
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